1.Break ups (They just don't understand)
Well, i know break ups are the worse kind of pain you will have in years and days to come. Everything happens for a reason and sometimes, we just have to overcome that feelings and move on. There's a reason why an ex is an EX instead of an ex back to an ITEM again. You see, ex never always understand what you require in life and ended up leaving you and some ex's just want to live a new life with someone else. Don't blame them for not being the best for you or them to leave. They gave up on us and to begin with, we should have known things like this would happen to us some day. It's good that you trusted them and it's sweet of you to have still waiting but, it's no use doing so if they never appreciate you in the first place. As much as we want to, things just don't go our way. For me, Ex means Exist. They exist in our life because it was destined and they leave because it's a story that we're supposed to go through in a way we do not realize. They don't actually want this to happen and some would go all "I regret" in everything. It's bad to be so ashamed of ourselves to not had realized it but it's a lesson and the only thing we can do now is, START OVER and do your part and get it right . Screw past, we're in present. Learn from it. Nothing always go the way we wanted so instead of looking back, just walk ahead and flow around it.
Ps. If you still plan on waiting then i suggest you best brace yourself to things that might surpass you. I'm afraid instead of holding on, you'll hate yourself and break down for attention of someone we might not want attention from. Annoyments i mean .
2.Friendship (I trusted them)
Friendship is a golden ticket to me. I say so because they are what we need and are important. Gold is treasure and they are the treasure to our loneliness. Without it, what are we to come? Based on my view, people value friendship more than love because they could trust them and i bet, everyone got their heart broken by friendship because of broken trust. Some people just can't get enough of giving too much trust in someone they are close with and barely know and you thought they are the answer to all of your problems when they...... just DON'T ? We can't just tell of our feelings, secrets to just ANYBODY we KNOW . Think, do you even know them well to actually know they are trustful people and when you tell them, you just start to blame them in everything for the rumors and hectic stories about you. Well you are to be blame too. *slurps some cola* You don't always make great choices and you make mistakes too. Just forgive them and just stop trusting them for a sec and think for the better. If they are good enough to be a well known soul silencer then, go ahead, explode your inner everything. Some friends can't take any of your whines and we can't always expect them to listen and understand if they never even know how to. Stop expecting everything from your friends but if you have a problem, seek them when you can but not ALWAYS, if you actually do that always, that'll be a great way for you to get less attention now. Oh and HELLO, they are your friends, treat them like friends does, they aren't councellors. Thanks :)
Till then for now. Keep watch for pt. 2 if you need some tips :)
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